The Effortless Marriage^TM

Helping Husbands Take the Lead Naturally

Marriage is one of the biggest challenges of your life.

You’ve held on as long as you can, but you’re caught in an infinite loop of negativity and frustration … with no end in sight. But that could all change for you ... significantly ... and sooner than you think.

In reality, the solutions are simple, but they are rarely obvious and never easy … that is, at first. When you're a man with a plan and an experienced coach, you can change your life. You were created to lead well … for your own fulfillment, but equally important, for your wife, your family, your community, and the world.

Your life could be so much simpler and so much more satisfying.

Imagine feeling respected and wanted
... instead of feeling like you don't belong in your own home.
Imagine knowing exactly what to say ... and having it come naturally
... instead of being afraid to say anything at all.
Imagine being free to voice your opinion and make decisions
... without starting another fight or keeping quiet to prevent one.
Imagine being able to concentrate and perform better at work
... no longer preoccupied with what's happening at home.
Imagine being excited to go home and be with your wife
... instead of dreading walking in the door.
Imagine having more time and more energy to be with your children
... instead of always saying "not right now."
Imagine the excitement of falling in love with your wife all over again.
Talking. Laughing. Touching. Making love.
Imagine dreaming together about what comes next.

If that's what you want, then you're in the right place.

The process is simple. It requires remembering and reviving the man you once were ... and the man you were becoming ... before things started going south with your wife.

Becoming the Man She Fell in Love With

The Effortless Marriage helps you escape the infinite loop of negativity and frustration to finally experience the peace and harmony you've been longing for as you reclaim your leadership role.

Instead of staying where you are now … avoiding conversations and conflict, you'll be empowered to experience the respect you deserve … with wisdom, strength, confidence, and compassion.

1. Reclaim Your Identity. You are a man created in the image of your Creator.

2. Get Clarity. Uncover what’s happening beneath the surface for yourself first, then for her.

3. Gain Knowledge & Understanding. Discover and transform the Four Forces that drive you.

4. Grow in Wisdom. Learn how to make a difference in real life: for yourself first, then for her.

Why Dr. Debi Starts With the Husband First

Most marriage help begins with the wife. She picks the counselor and frames the problem. The counselor follows her lead, and you have no choice but to follow along ... or suffer the consequences.

But Dr. Debi knows what it’s like to be where your wife is.
Frustrated. Sad. Hurt. Anxious. Disappointed. Hopeless.
And she knows how much a man matters.

Her own dad was out of the picture before she turned 3. She married the first time at age 18 and divorced by 35 with three boys to raise on her own. Her husband said he didn’t want to be married anymore.

No one would have blamed her for being angry and resentful.
Instead, she grew more and more curious as time went by. What had happened and why?

So she started college, completing her bachelor’s, master’s, and doctorate … one right after the other. Her dissertation was about mothers and sons. Her clinical work centered on the psychology of men and marriage.

In case you’re wondering, she did find love again.

Yes, she's walked this path professionally and personally. She's helped women understand their husbands, but she knows that only takes a marriage part of the way.

Dr. Debi knows you weren’t designed to be led by your wife.
You were designed to lead. Your wife knows and wants that, too … and so do you.

Effortless Marriage^TM

Private Coaching
6 Months

With this program, you take the lead. Begin with or without your wife. If you choose, you may invite her to join the process at any time during your enrollment. Once she's in, you'll both complete a relationship assessment. From that point forward, she has the same access to learning and support that you have.

Learning the Framework
Dr. Debi personally teaches you the Framework live during 4-6 Zoom sessions. Ask questions. Review your recordings anytime.
Real-Life Coaching
Discover what, when, where, why, and how to show up differently in your marriage based on your new knowledge and understanding.
Dr. Debi helps you understand what's happening in real life. Post in real time through your private space on Kajabi and/or Voxer to get feedback 4 days/week.

Apply to Work With Dr. Debi

Together Again

Premium Private Coaching
Investment: $25,000
6 Months

You initiate this program for both you and your wife from the beginning.

2-Day In-Person* Kick-Off
After completing the relationship assessment, the three of us meet in Austin, Texas, to give you a jumpstart ... with up to 2 months' worth of results in just 16 hours.
Monthly Couple Zoom Calls
Learning the Framework
Dr. Debi personally teaches each of you the Framework separately, live during individual 4-6 Zoom sessions. Ask questions. Review your recordings anytime.
Real-Life Coaching
Discover what, when, where, why, and how you each can show up differently in your marriage based on your new knowledge and understanding. Dr. Debi helps you understand what's happening in real life. Post in real time through your private space on Kajabi and/or Voxer to get feedback 4 days/week.

*Client travel and accommodations not included.

Together Forever

Ultimate Private Coaching
Investment: $50,000
12 Months