Solutions are almost always simple.
But they're rarely obvious or easy.
You're here because you want to be the Hero ... or the Heroine!
You refuse to play the victim in your own story.
- And you don't want to play the villain either, do you?
Sometimes, you just don't know what more you can do!
Your Love Story matters to me. That's why I am so passionate about helping couples and single adults learn how to apply healthy (life-giving) values and the findings of scientific research to everyday life and relationships.
I believe men are amazing. But I am not a sexist.
And although I love helping her get what she wants, I am not a feminist.
I am simply a pragmatist who recognizes and honors the fact that men and women are different by design. I developed A Wise Woman's Guide because ... as the ancient proverbs says, "A Wise Woman builds her house. But with her own hands ... a foolish one tears hers down."
Of course, a Wise Man seeks guidance, too. Especially in regard to his wife.
Hello, I'm Dr. Debi.
Founder of A Wise Woman's Guide
As a former Professor and Couple's Counselor,
I love teaching the boy how to win back his girl.
And I love teaching the girl how to get what she wants.
Which isn't nearly as difficult as he's been led to believe.
Just so you know ... I never favor one sex over the other. That would be counterproductive.
This is My Story
I was born a blue-eyed blonde. The apple of her daddy's eye. But one summer day, just before I turned 3, my mother packed up and left town with my older brother and me. While my dad was at work. He didn't see it coming.
I didn't see my dad again for 37 years.
I married the first time when I was 18. My husband was also 18 and had just finished his freshman year of college. I worked full time while he finished his degree. Then 6 weeks after he graduated, the first of our three sons was born. After 15 years of marriage, I was getting ready to start college myself, when my whole world fell apart.
He left on a Sunday afternoon. I didn't see it coming. And I was a hot mess.
Four and a half years after becoming a single mom, I finally started college. I earned my bachelor's degree, then my master's and my doctorate. All back-to-back. Then I started my Clinical Practice, specializing in the Psychology of Men and Marriage.
I had learned and grown a lot by that time, and I knew what it was like to be in a lonely relationship. So I easily understood what my clients were going through. In case you're wondering, I did learn to trust men again. And I fell in love again.
A couple of decades later, I closed my Clinical Practice and moved in the middle of Nowhere ... on a country road in Texas.
Now I’ve turned my personal transformation, as well as my work as a psychologist and university professor, into an easy-to-follow system for the Wise Woman who wants to unlock her potential and start enjoying her life and love like never before.
In case you're interested ...
I earned my Bachelor of Arts (BA) in Psychology at MidAmerica Nazarene University, and my Master of Arts (MA) and Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) degrees at Rosemead School of Psychology-Biola University. I thoroughly enjoyed teaching Psychology at MidAmerica Nazarene, Biola, and Azusa Pacific universities between 2002 and 2010.
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