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Enjoy these insights on the psychology of men, women, and marriage.

The Psychology of Relationships: Becoming Attached May 21, 2024

In Part 1 of 2, I explain how we develop our personal styles of relating to others and give you a free tool to help you understand your own style. Some couples seem to really do well together, whereas...

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Do You Want a Hero? May 14, 2024

[From the Podcast] Do you want a hero? Maybe. Maybe not. It’s your choice. Once upon a time, a woman had no choice. She needed a man in her life to survive. A father. A husband. A son. A male family m...

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Who is more complicated? Man or Woman? May 07, 2024

[From the Podcast] Men and women are different. But which gender is more complicated? If you ask a man, he’ll say women are more complicated. Because if she does or says something he doesn’t understan...

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How to Fix Your Couple Communication Apr 30, 2024

[From the Podcast] Men and women are different. Always have been. Always will be. And that’s a very good thing. When women are valued, and men are respected, we develop the capacity to create a beauti...

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The Ultimate Desire Of Every Man Apr 23, 2024

I don't think we realize as women just how emotionally starved our men are. When they're babies, when they're little boys, we just, we dote on them. You know, moms are usually pretty close to their li...

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How To Quickly Ruin Your Marriage Apr 16, 2024

I recently signed up for an exercise class at my local gym. The instructor was very fit, of course, and I thought how great it would be for my own body to be as trim as hers. And she seemed so pleasan...

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Is Attraction Important For A Successful Marriage? Apr 09, 2024

I recently received this question from one of my followers. She asked, “Is attraction important in a relationship? If the man is really a great guy, but he is not attractive to my eyes, should I still...

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How to Create the Essential Safe Haven Every Man Needs Apr 02, 2024

Most women are unaware of the essential safe haven every man needs. I'm talking about and average guy who takes good care of his wife and his family. He goes to work every day and comes home every eve...

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Cracking The Code: Decoding Women's Anger Mar 26, 2024

The issue of women and anger in a relationship is a very confusing one for a lot of men. When they see their wives upset, all they know is that she is angry. They don't think about looking past her an...

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The Shocking Truth About Men That Will Blow Your Mind Mar 19, 2024

I've spent my lifetime studying men. They're such fascinating and confusing human beings, and I keep learning more about them all the time. This may sound strange to you, but it’s absolutely true. Whe...

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A Wise Woman Builds Her House Mar 12, 2024

"The Wise Woman builds her house. But with her own hands, the foolish one tears hers down." Ancient Proverb

Who is "a wise woman?" What characteristics does she possess? How is a wise woman different...

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Can a man understand a woman? Jan 11, 2024

When a woman does something that a man doesn’t understand, he gives up. So give some thought to these thoughts. Then think about how you might use some of my words to help you clarify what you’re all ...

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