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The Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage 

Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD

Welcome to the Sophomore Class!

PSY201 Can This Marriage Be Saved?

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WORKSHOPS

Where to begin when you need a Quick Win

As a former Professor and Couple's Counselor, I want to teach you how I worked with men and women in my Clinical Practice for more than 20 years.

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Sophomore: Workshops on the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage

PSY202

Lost in Translation

It happens every day. And it has from the very beginning. One minute you're laughing and smiling. The next minute, everything goes sideways. What do you do?

Why men and women miscommunicate.

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PSY203

Why won't he talk to me?

Discover the simple truth about what happens when men shut down on intimate communication. Problems. Patterns. Possibilities. Simple. Scientific. Solutions.

Get the conversation going again.

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PSY204

Connection and Influence

Simple, Scientific Principles of Behavioral Psychology to create connection without begging, bribing, standing on your head, dragging him to therapy, or anything crazy!

Be his inspiration and greatest influence.

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No need to read all these books ... nor to earn a fancy degree.

I've done that for you. As a former University Professor and Couple's Counselor, I'm happy to teach you what I learned so you can enjoy the kind of life and love that most folks just dream about.

I think about marriage differently than most people. 

Most relationship coaches, counselors, and therapists ignore the reality that men and women are different. 

At best, most offer SFH (Standard Fare Help). It's the emotional equivalence of SAD (Standard American Diet) ... mass-produced bunk that makes men and women settle for much less health and happiness than they could be enjoying.

  • SFH assumes that one person is right (most often they think it's her) and that other person is wrong (most often they think it's him).  
  • SFH never gives you the facts about what works, what doesn't, and why ... in an intimate relationship between a man and a woman. 
  • Instead, SFH keeps you stuck going to ... and paying for ... sessions until you figure it out on your own ... or one of you gives up.

That's not what you wanted when you reached out for help, was it? 

That’s why I created A Wise Woman's Guide.
No, I'm not here to tell you what to do.
That's up to you. 

I teach the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage:
what works, what doesn't, and why. 

In the process, you'll learn some very specific steps that you can take to move yourself forward by making your own fully-informed, conscious choices. 

And I hope you will always make fully-informed, conscious choices. 

Because your success matters to me. 

Warmly, 
Dr. Debi, Psych Prof 
A Wise Woman's Guide 

 

Disclaimer

I am a psychologist, but I am not your therapist or your coach. I teach the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage. The info provided is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace a professional evaluation or treatment for emotional and relational concerns. If you are experiencing severe distress or believe you may be a victim of domestic violence, please contact a licensed mental health professional for assistance. If you are experiencing a life-threatening emergency, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

If others can learn how to thrive in Life and in Love, you can, too!

I am passionate about helping couples and single adults discover ways to apply values that never go out of style and the findings of scientific research to everyday life and love.

I love helping the boy win back his girl.

But mostly ... I love helping the girl get what she wants.
Which isn't nearly as complicated as the boy believes it to be. 

Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD