Effective Marriage Education

The Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage 

Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD

PSY400 | Professional Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching vs. Marriage Counseling: The Hidden Difference

  • Should you invest in marriage coaching or marriage counseling?
  • What's the difference?

From a practical point of view, marriage coaching could be your best bet for reviving your marriage. I keep hearing that "coaches don't teach." Instead they "ask questions" and "listen for patterns." That doesn't sound like "coaching" to me. It sounds like counseling.

Most counselors assume you already know the answers and just need to talk and/or complain and lose long enough that you start to figure it out on your own.

But you already talk and/or complain and lose ... without paying a counselor to be your audience ... and it doesn't work.
  • What difference does a paid observer make?
  • What if your son's football coach took that approach?

What if the problem is that you really don't know what works, what doesn't, and why in your marriage? And that's the reason you're still talking and/or complaining about your marriage and losing all the time.

 
What do you need for greater marital satisfaction?

If you wanted help with your marriage, wouldn't you want someone who knows how relationships work and is willing to teach you what she has learned through years of study, training, and experience?

Discover Coaching with a Full Assessment + Feedback Session!

Are you ready for Advanced Coaching?

Married? Engaged? Dating? Single? Your relationship status doesn't prevent you from learning how to apply the findings of scientific research to your everyday life and love. All *Professional Coaching is provided by Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD. (No interns or assistants!)

PSY401
Two Hearts 

for Couples

  • Discover Your Strengths 
  • Explore Positive Patterns 
  • Appreciate Your Personalities

PSY404
Your Heart 

for Individuals

  • Discover Your Strengths 
  • Explore Positive Patterns 
  • Appreciate Your Personality

This Consultation is for New Students only!

Now is your opportunity to do your own research to see where you are compared to where you want to be.

  • Complete Assessment | online
  • 60-minute feedback session | with Dr. Debi

We'll meet privately on Zoom to talk about ways you can embrace the Possibilities!


Hello, I'm Dr. Debi.


Men and women are different. 
Alway have been.
Always will be.

I never favor one sex over the other.
That would be counterproductive.
That means I am not a sexist.

I love teaching the boy how to win back his girl.
And although I love teaching the girl how to get what she wants.
Which isn't nearly as difficult as he's been led to believe, 

I am neither a sexist nor a feminist.
I am a pragmatist who recognizes and honors
the fact that men and women are different by design.

I've taught the info in this Program for a long time. 
Now it's available to you. "Why?" you ask.
Because your success matters to me!

 

The Couple Assessment

After more than 20 years as a Couple's Psychologist, I still use Prepare/Enrich Assessment, which has been validated with data collected from couples from a wide range of cultures for more than 40 years.

At this point, I have been using this Assessment for more than 20 years. In addition, I have had the privilege to teach mental health professionals, pastors, and marriage mentors how to use Prepare/Enrich in their work with couples. 

The Individual Assessment

This is another tool I've been using for many years. It is also completed online before your personal Feedback Session.

 

 

Simple, Relevant, Research-Based

The Couple's Assessment provides:

1. A momentary snapshot of your relationship 
2. A proven means to lower your risk of divorce 
3. An accurate report of your relationship strengths 
4. A catalyst for discussion between you and your mate 
5. A valid and reliable source of relationship enrichment

 

 

Your Feedback Session

No, you will not be assigned to an assistant! Instead, you and your mate will meet me personally (a.k.a., Dr. Debi herself) on Zoom for a private discussion of your Assessment Results. I'll go over your Results, what the data mean, and ways you can embrace the Possibilities.

  • Discover Your Strengths 
  • Explore Positive Patterns 
  • Appreciate Different Personalities

 

PSY401 Two Hearts: 3 Steps

Register now. Book up to 60 days in advance.

Sign Up

Couple Assessment 
+ 1-hour Feedback Session 
Register Now $137

Book Your Feedback Session

You will be redirected to Dr. Debi's Calendar.
Texas Time Office Hours: 12-5pm Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays; 12-9pm Tuesdays
NOTE: Calendar always shows your time zone.

Complete the Assessment

Within 24 hours, you will receive an email with login instructions. You take the online assessment separately (about 45 minutes). You cannot see each other's answers.

PSY404 Your Heart: 3 Steps

Register now. Book up to 60 days in advance.

Sign Up

Individual Assessment 
+ 1-hour Feedback Session 
Register Now $137

Book Your Feedback Session

You will be redirected to Dr. Debi's Calendar.
Texas Time Office Hours: 12-5pm Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays; 12-9pm Tuesdays
NOTE: Calendar always shows your time zone.

Complete the Assessment

Within 24 hours, you will receive an email with instructions. Please complete this online at least 24 hours before we meet so I have time to take a look at it for you.